Anger is a powerful emotion that the Bible doesn’t simply forbid, but carefully instructs us on.
There is a place for righteous anger a holy frustration with sin and injustice, just as Jesus was angry at the money changers defiling the temple. However, this type of anger is focused on sin, not on personal offense, and it is always controlled. The problem for most of us is that our anger is rarely this pure. Ephesians 4:26-27 gives a complex command: “In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.”
Unrighteous anger is a destructive fire that burns ourselves and those around us. It is often rooted in pride, selfishness, or unmet expectations. When we let this anger simmer, it turns into bitterness, rage, and slander, which are all works of the flesh. James 1:19-20 gives us the key: “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.” Unchecked anger never leads to the righteous life God wants for us; it only leads to broken relationships and open doors for the devil.
So, how do we handle anger? First, be slow to it. Pause and ask God to search your heart. Second, if you are angry, address it quickly. Don’t let it fester. Go to the person if necessary, or pour out your frustration to God in honest prayer.
Finally, surrender your right to get even. Forgiveness is the water that douses the flames of wrath. Romans 12:19 reminds us, “Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: ‘It is mine to avenge; I will repay,’ says the Lord.” Let God be the judge, and let His peace be your guard.
